It’s been a week since “h” received the new shorter tube. His experience is that he can comfortably walk, sit and lay down but sleeping is an issue because he knows the belt is present and it keeps him awake. I have been letting him sleep out of the belt for now anyways, so that he gets some rest. The first few days I kept him locked all night and he was a zombie the next day so I decided it was best to leave him out at night, besides he is right next to Me so I know where he is..hehe! He gets up locks up and goes for his morning walk and about his business.
What W/we have come to discover is that the chaffing issues are lessened if the belt is tight around the waist and through the crotch. The looser the belt is on him the more movement he finds happens between his body and the belt that results in chaffing. I like tighter~! Tighter is better in My book so he is on the tightest adjustment hole around the waist band. He says in spite of that the belt is still vey comfortable.
More to come!
O/our new CB from Fancy Steel arrived today for “h” to wear, it truly is a work of art. “h” is three days into the new belt, and like anything new, there are adjustments to be made. “h”-‘s belt is a hip design, and this is the first time Jay from Fancy Steel has made a hip style belt, all of his products thus far have been belts that sit higher on the waist across the belly button…
This is a picture from the web site, not My “h”, W/we are a bit older and gravity has had an effect. “h” could not wear this belt because if he were to suck in his tummy it would just fall to the floor~! LOL!! So Jay agreed to take a shot at a hip style and here it is…
“h: has slept all night without any discomfort. The issue he is having is that the penis tube is designed for the waist height belt but because his waist band sits about 3 inches below the belly button, the penis tube being the length it is, wraps around under him to his anus and chaffs on his thighs. As “h” puts it, i feel like i have a large steel banana between my legs all the time chaffing me. So W/we have discussed this with Jay at Fancy Steel and he has produced a smaller tube for another customer that he believes will solve the issue… So W/we are just waiting on this new tube which is half the length and should not wrap up under “h”, thus solving the chaffing issue. Otherwise the CB is an art form for sure, the amount of adjustability is fantastic because all the components slide along two cables and can be anchored at an infinite number of positions with locking screws. “h” has been on his morning walks locked up, he went to an appointment with me yesterday, the grocery store, etc., and one could never tell he is in a CB. Because of the chaffing, I have agreed that when he is out working in the yard (it is getting warm down here now) that he will be out of the CB because the sweat and heat makes the chaffing even worse. Otherwise when the work is done, the belt goes back on… So there it is hanging on the door next to the shower just waiting for him to step back into his forever home! I hope, hope, hope the shorter penis tube solves the issue. Jay says fabrication will be 5 days then shipping from Australia to Texas, so probably two to three weeks before the new tube arrives, I will let everyone know how this works out. In the meantime W/we cannot say enough great things about working with Jay at Fancy Steel. He has figured out that success is tied to customer service. Thanks Jay!
Years ago I could bind “h” in any way shape or form I pleased and then walk away for an hour and never hear a peep from him. Several years ago, for no explainable reason he developed claustrophobia quite badly that resulted in pretty bad panic attacks if I was away for just several minutes. So long as he could hear Me he was fine, but if he thought for a second I had left and abandoned him he would come unglued, which isn’t a good thing for O/our type of relationship, because sometimes he needs to be left along, restrained and reflect.
W/we have discussed this and have started to try and reduce his anxiety with short training sessions, usually in the mid afternoon and after I bath in the evening. What I will do is restrain him on the discipline ottoman in leather cuffs and always a gag of some sort. He likes the penis muzzle so I have been strapping him into that quite frequently. The other day I restrained him as such, took a bath and when I got out I spoke to him, told him I was leaving the room but I would be near by and check on him frequently, but randomly so there would be no pattern he could count on. I told him he would be like this for one hour and then I would let him out. There was to be no corporal punishment, just himself along to work through the fear.
I rubbed his back and walked away, visiting him several times, talking to him and assuring him I love him and I would never leave him in harms way. I was happy to say he did not have one panic attack. That is progress!
“h” has been pretty good lately but even so periodically he needs a refresher course in his submission to Me, so today it was a beautiful morning so I had him in leather cuffs, a muzzle with a penis gag, blindfolded, foam hear plugs and hearing protectors. I had some chores that needed to be done in the stable so I put him the cross ties and spread eagled his feet apart with a pair of chains I have out there.
This is My creation~!
A little blurry, sorry.
And a close up…
It actually looks worse in r/l, he was floating so I took the liberty of whipping him hard. The whole ordeal made Me so wet I unlocked his ankles and backed up to him and made Myself an orgasm doggie style. He is still levitating somewhere in the house…hehehe~
“h” really pissed Me off today with a smart ass comment. I dropped what I was doing to put a hood on him and cuffs. W/we have a special ottoman used for his punishment. I locked him to it and used a 39″ dressage whip on his ass and balls.
Problem solved for today!